https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/rescuing-your-husband-wont-save-your-marriage

“It’s not healthy for women to “rescue” their husbands. When wives attempt this they’re often left with a man who is more like a child than a partner. We can be empathetic without taking over our husband’s problems. We can offer advice and lend him courage when he questions himself, but we can’t fulfill his duties for him.”